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|2/01/2012|
Gonna talk about something that well many people here me talk about but not to a great level...
BOYS
well you read it right ... BOYS, MEN, the MALE species... -A-
yes... I mean throughout this blog you've seen pics of ever so delicious guys~ cute, handsome, with and without a top lying or standing... etc... hehe~ *shamelessly admitting*
but yea... I mean it's NORMAL for a girl to talks about guys being cute, good looking, dateable etc.... and every year I do this thing where I blog about my type of guy so that when I look back I can see how much I've changed... what was there, what isn't anymore.... though I haven't done it this year... which I will in this LONG essay post LOL~ but before all that, there is definitely 1 thing I've learnt .. BE SPECIFIC! cause afterall even if the guy does met your general requirements or the superficial ones he might just end up being a loser or a douche ... so here is my much more MATURE list of things I look for in a guy... yes its no longer just about LOOKS
1. The first thing I notice would be how well he takes cares of himself... he doesn't have to be a jock or a health freak ... all he has to do is CARE about his image... who wants to date a guy who dresses in a tshirt/singlet with bermudas and flip flops -A- NOT ME... have a sense of style... take care of ur image ... but dun worry about it too much!
2. possibly under this category as well... HOW HE SMELLS -A- like yes.... smell good and you will go a LONG way~ prolly nt just for me but any other girl
3. How well he handles his money cause I NEVER like it when he can't take care of his own finances be it just allowance or pay cause I honestly think if men have pride then don't you find it embarrassing if you went up to ur girl asking if you could borrow $20 or when she ask u out u say you DON'T have money till who knws when ... SERIOUSLY?? that is definitely an embarrassment ... cause after all the girl definitely seeks financial stability when she wants to get married ...
4. EDUCATION/ JOB I like to see a guy SERIOUS about this cause it shows that he has a goal in life, a plan for the future and definitely is moving forward in life...
5. Confidence ... just like how guys find women with confidence sexy ... I find that when a guy is confident it's totally attractive... BUT with that said don't mix it up with having an ego cause a guy who is SUPER OVERLY confident will definitely be a turn off for any girl
6. Maturity ... BE MATURE... know when to do what, what to ask, and NEVER complain unless there is a need to -A- i mean girls complain alot yea.... but I definitely hate it when I guy does... like MAN UP and DO SOMETHING about it -A- even us girls do something about it even though we complain -A- so have a freaking backbone and do something about it!!!
I guess the last one takes time -A- but yea ... will continue later with another post.... but for now these are my 6 that I look for... no longer superfial , shallow things like LOOKS~ from experience definitely even today... sometimes I think men are just so predictable... -A-
QUOTE: "Next time take initiative, have the initiative to ... This time round I put your name... It's for your own good.... "
My response?
Initiative? Who are you to talk about initiative to me?? someone who ACTUALLY bothered to ask and talk to you about the bloody project while you stayed fucking quiet the entire time doing the project without me EVEN KNOWING IT! and you call this group work? I took the bloody initiative to get things started and ask and I was fine with your idea so I did what you told me... and even though I did it wrongly don't come talking to me about taking initiative cause you didnt take ANY when it came to group work... so don't make yourself sound like such a bloody saint cause afterall this is group work and where initiative is concern its about working WITH your goddamn partner and getting the ball rolling NOT keeping quiet, avoiding me and then when I started taking INITIATIVE, do you start telling me what your doing ... it doesn't work this way... obviously I just smile and say nothing, pretending I get you when in actual fact I'm mad pissed at you... cause after all that's the mature thing to do right? and funny how I expected this... when 2 weeks went by and NOTHING was done so you dun take the lead? I WILL and when you tell me you've started then fine I'm not gonna argue and ask u why but I'll just do my part ... this is pair work and I will NOT argue with you.... cause after all I've learnt to never partner a guy ever again ... so unorganized, with their bloody ego and acting nice without even bothering much about their group or partner to actually DO something
shall not carry on~ cause I anticipated and expected all this from partnering you... since I've never grouped with a guy b4 thought it'd be in the experience... let's see how much fun we can have... cause when you cross me then you will see how much of a bitch I can be... I knew from the start one day you'd come and tell me something like this.... how predictable.... and they say women don't understand men ...
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